DARING TO SHOW THE LOVE WE FEEL INSIDE
It is human nature to be preoccupied with what other people think of us.
"Do other people like me?"
"Do other people think I am okay?"
This preoccupation can be so strong that it can make us FEAR other people, AVOID them, try to IMPRESS them, or feel extremely ANXIOUS around them.
But the thing is...
Those people we are trying to impress... also want people to like THEM.
They are preoccupied with exactly the same thing!
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After suffering with severe social anxiety for 5 years, I chose to completely flip this dynamic around.
I chose to LOVE everyone... regardless of what they felt inside.
You may be thinking...
"But I don't feel love at all...
I feel fear, I feel resentment, I feel indifference, I feel anger, I feel pain..."
I personally believe that these emotions are simply LOVE in disguise!
We just need to flip them back to the emotion we REALLY feel inside!
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I believe that EVERYONE loves people.
We are social animals...
We have always needed the love of the tribe.
The key is to embrace all that LOVE we have inside! <3
Marni Penner
A Kanadai Coach :)
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